Friday, November 12, 2010
I didn't understand until now and it makes perfect sense
You ever lose that one person you didn't want to lose? Well, I just did.. didn't think it would happen for the sake of her privacy I wont reveal her name. But, I never knew how she felt until now. For most of my life relationships haven't been a strong point in my life. I had been able to communicate but, not like I wanted too and just about all the girlfriends I had communication was lacking. Then she came along, it was different with her. Looking back on it now we should have just stayed friends. I don't regret a lot of stuff but I regret that decision. Now, when every girlfriend I had broke up with me it has been through text and I never found anything wrong with that. When I broke up with her through text though it hit a nerve with her. She found it "rude", "disrespectful", and "not classy", she felt I should have had the decency to call her. Thats my fault but I never knew it was or she felt like that because all she told me was I could have went about it differently. Then every time we argued I wouldn't call her but every time except one, I couldn't call her. I was preoccupied, but it makes sense, she said I go on and on about communication but "I suck at it". I thought about it she has some truth to it, but I just go by off what has happened to me in the past and that's probably not the best thing. She said I changed for the worst, didn't see it that way, but I'm deeply sorry for ever hurting you or making you feel that way. I never acknowledged it because I never thought of it as disrespectful or rude but, I now know. Sometimes it takes losing the person you didn't want to lose to better yourself. So, I'm sorry but I want to thank you at the same time for opening my eyes. I will get better and when I do I kinda owe half of it to you. So, with that being said take care of ya self hope you end up being what you wanted to be and I'll still pray for you. God Bless, be safe.
Never Understanding Women
Since, the beginning of time women have been humans we have not been able to understand. That trend continues to stand tall in my generation as well. I will never understand them and I really don't want to in all honesty. They make no sense to me and probably most men agree with me as well. This week has just proven that they are a mystery and only one person knows the answer. That is the the one who created us all, God. I can't live with them and can't live without them.
Now, women are so damn complicated they say one thing but they expect us to do another. They blame guys for there's no good guys around but truth is in my generation there aren't a lot of good girls around either. Most of them are jump-offs, hoes, or they just have no respect for themselves and don't have there shit together. Also, I learned a lot from August till now. Some women don't take criticism well, some can't go from being your girl to being one of your good friends, and some don't take rejection well. I guess this experience is good for me because until now most of my home girls are like me, so with that being said I'M STILL NOT CHANGING WHO I AM! I REFUSE TO, I WON'T, I'M NOT GOING TO WATCH MY MOUTH!
Sorry, but if your kitchen is dirty, I think you need to know I would expect you to do the same for me. If I think you look a little jacked up, I am going to tell you and I would expect you to do the same for me. I can be the nicest guy in the world and no, I'm not perfect but I treat girls right. The way a real gentleman is supposed too (most of the time) but, that isn't good enough no more. Shake my head, Shake my head. Why girls go for the girl that they know is not right for them? I have no clue that is a mystery that I will never understand. You want us to respect you but, you giving it up on the first night, niggas go through you more than they go through a drive way. Sorry, I'm a virgin and I would have a hard time respecting you. There aren't a lot of good guys left but I'm trying to hold on to this being respectful but it's like most the time when you respect some women they rather get disrespected. Why? I don't know. Kind of amusing at times. lol. There's only so much a nice guy can take before you make him cold-hearted and I'm getting to that point. I never cheated or laid hands on a woman but they be wanting nothing to do with me after we break up like I did cheat or put my hands on them. If that's the case I should have cheated. Shake My Head.
When it comes to girls and relationships I'm clueless. I have tried to be nice and most of them say "Aww you're the sweetest guy I've ever known" but when it comes to one big argument that's it. Now last relationship was my fault. Girls assume way too much as if you still want to be their friend after we are longer a couple as we trying to control you or me not wanting you to move on. Hate to bust your bubble but in my case thats not the point. If I care about you and we didn't have a bad break up there's a good chance a very high percentage I am going to still care about you. You're going to be probably one of my close friends so therefore I am going to ask you questions that a close friend would ask and if you can't handle that then just don't be my friend point, blank, simple, period.
When I get to heaven I want to ask God why he made women so difficult. Until then my time here is done.
Now, women are so damn complicated they say one thing but they expect us to do another. They blame guys for there's no good guys around but truth is in my generation there aren't a lot of good girls around either. Most of them are jump-offs, hoes, or they just have no respect for themselves and don't have there shit together. Also, I learned a lot from August till now. Some women don't take criticism well, some can't go from being your girl to being one of your good friends, and some don't take rejection well. I guess this experience is good for me because until now most of my home girls are like me, so with that being said I'M STILL NOT CHANGING WHO I AM! I REFUSE TO, I WON'T, I'M NOT GOING TO WATCH MY MOUTH!
Sorry, but if your kitchen is dirty, I think you need to know I would expect you to do the same for me. If I think you look a little jacked up, I am going to tell you and I would expect you to do the same for me. I can be the nicest guy in the world and no, I'm not perfect but I treat girls right. The way a real gentleman is supposed too (most of the time) but, that isn't good enough no more. Shake my head, Shake my head. Why girls go for the girl that they know is not right for them? I have no clue that is a mystery that I will never understand. You want us to respect you but, you giving it up on the first night, niggas go through you more than they go through a drive way. Sorry, I'm a virgin and I would have a hard time respecting you. There aren't a lot of good guys left but I'm trying to hold on to this being respectful but it's like most the time when you respect some women they rather get disrespected. Why? I don't know. Kind of amusing at times. lol. There's only so much a nice guy can take before you make him cold-hearted and I'm getting to that point. I never cheated or laid hands on a woman but they be wanting nothing to do with me after we break up like I did cheat or put my hands on them. If that's the case I should have cheated. Shake My Head.
When it comes to girls and relationships I'm clueless. I have tried to be nice and most of them say "Aww you're the sweetest guy I've ever known" but when it comes to one big argument that's it. Now last relationship was my fault. Girls assume way too much as if you still want to be their friend after we are longer a couple as we trying to control you or me not wanting you to move on. Hate to bust your bubble but in my case thats not the point. If I care about you and we didn't have a bad break up there's a good chance a very high percentage I am going to still care about you. You're going to be probably one of my close friends so therefore I am going to ask you questions that a close friend would ask and if you can't handle that then just don't be my friend point, blank, simple, period.
When I get to heaven I want to ask God why he made women so difficult. Until then my time here is done.
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Guys who have no respect for girls
So, I happen to come across this video and all I could do is shake my head as to what is wrong with men with these days.
http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh6y42Q2fD646F6kvZ
There are two things wrong with this picture:
1.) Personally I don't think the girl should be wearing a dress that low cut to begin with, then on top of that to not have no panties, thong, g-string, underwear, no nothing on is a problem. Now ladies if you feel different please let me know but she should have know better than to wear that. Sometimes the stuff girls go out with is ridiculous. Ladies should dress with class not dressing to get attention if all a guy sees is breast and booty that's what he going to go after. No offense ladies but if you dress like a hoe than a guy is going to think I can bag her or I can hit without even caring about how you feel. I feel like some girls that dress like that are insecure about how they look. Maybe, they dress like that because without it they feel they wouldn't get no attention?? I don't know what the case may be, but to me personally a girl who dresses like that is not appealing to me at all all I could is shake my head.
Now, I may be wrong but if she was wearing something more "lady-like" than I think her chances of that happening to her is a 97%.
2.) The guy is a flat out jackass! What possessed him to do that? I wish I knew the answer but I do know he was way out of line with that. It's guys like that that give us good men a bad rap. Real talk. Like, that is like a hell-no. Real men don't do anything of that nature! Then the other guy who encouraged him to do that should be ashamed of himself like real talk. SMDH at these fools, this is wrong with our young men these days. It happens a lot of times maybe not as bold as that fool was grabbing on girl's booties without their permission, forcing a girl to dance with you at a club (well, least attempting too), and etc. Like, if she says NO fellas then what she means no. But, in this case he was definitely in the wrong. He was so wrong, then when she came at him he decked her. That right there is flat out ignorance! Not only do you lift up her skirt not once but TWICE then he had the nerve to deck her. There is something seriously wrong with our generation and it needs to stop because the number of good wholesome black men are decreasing by the second and it seems like no one has the urgency to try to save our youth.
Lastly, their both at fault she is asking for trouble wearing that dress and asking for unwanted attention is showing no class and he has no respect at all. It really does sadden me to see this is our generation. This could possibly be our future men and women.
We need to change this ASAP!
http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh6y42Q2fD646F6kvZ
There are two things wrong with this picture:
1.) Personally I don't think the girl should be wearing a dress that low cut to begin with, then on top of that to not have no panties, thong, g-string, underwear, no nothing on is a problem. Now ladies if you feel different please let me know but she should have know better than to wear that. Sometimes the stuff girls go out with is ridiculous. Ladies should dress with class not dressing to get attention if all a guy sees is breast and booty that's what he going to go after. No offense ladies but if you dress like a hoe than a guy is going to think I can bag her or I can hit without even caring about how you feel. I feel like some girls that dress like that are insecure about how they look. Maybe, they dress like that because without it they feel they wouldn't get no attention?? I don't know what the case may be, but to me personally a girl who dresses like that is not appealing to me at all all I could is shake my head.
Now, I may be wrong but if she was wearing something more "lady-like" than I think her chances of that happening to her is a 97%.
2.) The guy is a flat out jackass! What possessed him to do that? I wish I knew the answer but I do know he was way out of line with that. It's guys like that that give us good men a bad rap. Real talk. Like, that is like a hell-no. Real men don't do anything of that nature! Then the other guy who encouraged him to do that should be ashamed of himself like real talk. SMDH at these fools, this is wrong with our young men these days. It happens a lot of times maybe not as bold as that fool was grabbing on girl's booties without their permission, forcing a girl to dance with you at a club (well, least attempting too), and etc. Like, if she says NO fellas then what she means no. But, in this case he was definitely in the wrong. He was so wrong, then when she came at him he decked her. That right there is flat out ignorance! Not only do you lift up her skirt not once but TWICE then he had the nerve to deck her. There is something seriously wrong with our generation and it needs to stop because the number of good wholesome black men are decreasing by the second and it seems like no one has the urgency to try to save our youth.
Lastly, their both at fault she is asking for trouble wearing that dress and asking for unwanted attention is showing no class and he has no respect at all. It really does sadden me to see this is our generation. This could possibly be our future men and women.
We need to change this ASAP!
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